~Advise For Him~

Salam..
Due to My B2B journey that just around the corner..so, I want to share with all people outside there..some advise, really true what women want and aspect from men..When women said, she really meant it..Women are born with a soft heart..full with love.. So, she want men that can give and protect their love as well as herself..

Actually, I got it form Fb Wedding in Islam..Lets, read..

How to deal with women..

When she hits you or pushing you …

 (Hold her hands)


When she get angry 

( Just hug her )



When she be silent 

(Ask her what is problem)


When she Ignore you 

(Give her attention)


When she asked you about something 

(Don’t neglected her)


When she want to get away from you 

( Do not agree with her opinion)


When you see her in the worst situations

 (Tell her you are beautiful)


When you see her cry

( Kiss her head and tell her i love you a lot)


When you feel her scared 

(Protect her )


When you see her jealous

 (That’s mean she love you more than you imagine )


When she say to you i love you

( That’s mean she have feelings to you more than you think)


When she look into your eyes 

(Don’t turned your eyes until she turned it first)



They are a garment for you and you are a garment to them 


Qur’an [2 : 187]

By getting married you are not just getting a wife, you are getting your whole world. 

From now until the rest of your days your wife will be your partner, your companion, and your 

best friend.

She will share your moments, your days, and your years. She will share your joys and 

sorrows, your successes and failures, your dreams and your fears. When you are ill, she will

 take the best care of you; when you need help, she will do all she can for you;

When you have a secret, she will keep it; when you need advice, she will give you the best 

advice. She will always be with you: when you wake up in the morning the first thing your eyes

 will see will be hers; during the day, she will be with you, if for a moment she is not with you 

by her physical body, she will be thinking of you, praying for you with all her heart, mind, and

 soul; when you go to sleep at night, the last thing your eyes will see will be her; and when 

you are asleep you will still see her in your dreams. In short, she will be your whole world and

 you will be her whole world.

It requires that a husband and wife should be as garments for each other. Just as garments

 are for protection, comfort, show and concealment for human beings, Allah expects 

husbands and wives to be for one another.

‘And the believers, men and women, are protecting friends of one another; they enjoin the 

right and forbid the wrong, and they establish worship and they pay the poor-due, and they 

obey Allah and His messenger; as for those, Allah will have mercy on them; Lo! Allah is 

Mighty, Wise. Allah hath promised to believers – men and women – gardens under which 

rivers flow, to dwell therein, and beautiful mansions in gardens of everlasting bliss; but the 

greatest bliss is the good pleasure of Allah: This is the supreme felicity.’ Qur’an [9 : 71 - 72]